Before Silent Bob…
Hard to believe that at the end of this month I will have been a widow for five years. (Just so you know, I can’t
Hard to believe that at the end of this month I will have been a widow for five years. (Just so you know, I can’t
“You are a good woman,” Mother whispers as I lean close. “Why are you telling me this,” I say to her, not quite teary, because
Picture a second grade class, decades before now. There were rotary telephones with party lines (which meant that sometimes you had to wait your turn
On this day, 50 years ago, Silent Bob and I married. On January 31, 2024, I will have been a widow for 4 years. It’s
On this day, eighteen years ago, at this time, Silent Bob and I lay on a bed in a Grand Junction hotel room, our grief
“Janet, stop jumping around and doing cartwheels in the house.” That was my dad, his temper often intensified by the hangovers and headaches that regularly
At this time in 1978, just two years in advance of what will be the hottest summer on record, I was in the hospital, laboring
This is a pubic service announcement about grief. If anything in this world is true, it’s the reality of grief and that it’s a part
My men were all out for the evening. I figured I could make them proud of me. Amazon had delivered the replacement for the failed
“What in the world are you doing?” Josh said, walking down the driveway. It was mostly dark, as dark as it can be on a
We have a pool. Which is a very usual thing to have in Houston. We’ve had that pool for almost 40 years and with the
The wind blew slightly and there was no snow but there could have been. The foggy, wet night was heavy, rising only enough to halo
Prayer is a strange thing. Really. Imagine believing in the productive outcome of a form of communication that largely resides and is expressed solely in
The mother walked across the uneven grass to the new barn. She had too much to do. She reminded herself to pull her torso up
It’s been a very tough year and a half. For everyone. Here we are, March 12th 2021, on the brink of hope. We are tentatively stepping out
I’ve been cleaning out a lot of stuff. Of course I have been saying that for a while now. But with me, because I am
On this day in 1983, early on a Sunday morning, Silent Bob and I left for the hospital. I was 2 weeks past my
Daniel graduated from Wiesbaden High School in Wiesbaden, Germany. While in high school, he participated in Army JROTC, Cross Country, Soccer, Track and Field, and
I give thanks to all of those that I know who have served with these two veteran sons of mine. I am thinking about you,
All summer long the girls in my hives have been working. They scrounged the country side for pollen and nectar. Because not much bloomed in
I binge watch TV. I am not sure that ten years ago as many people would have even admitted to that activity. But here we
When Silent Bob and I bought the house I live in, it had been abandoned for over 2 years. Sitting higher up than all of
If my Silent Bob were still here he would have gotten me a card. It would have been pretty and sentimental and he would have
Lily Connolly is a senior Political Science major and Military Studies minor from Santa Barbara, California. She will graduate and commission as an Adjutant General
Cams have been used in engineering from the 3rd century BC, in everything from music boxes to combustion engines. Janet thinks of them as ‘oblong
This is me. In my washer. But this is about my frig. I am getting used to the term ‘widow’. Well, I’m not really. I
“What’s that racket?” I said as youngest son and I walked out to the driveway. He was ready to go back to his home in
I miss my husband. I do. You learn that when suffering tragedies and heartbreak, you have to make a choice to either fall into the
Thinking back, these last few weeks, I’ve been trying to remember what I have hoped for over the six decades I have lived. I am
Robert R. Siefert, Jr. March 12, 1951 – January 31, 2020 On January 31, 2020 around 10 pm, my husband passed on to Paradise. If
This is not about our family farm. Explicit content included. “What do you mean there are no sex education classes,” I asked, my voice escalating
It was the summer of 2011 and Josh had just come off his second deployment and I had a conference in Greece. We made plans
Dear Chick-Fil-A I am sitting in the drive though at Walter’s Road and FM 1960 in Houston and I thought you might like some feedback!
The family of four set around the fire. They were the only campers, having arrived past the weekend, so they had their pick of campsites.
“I need for you to give me a full length photo of yourself,” Carolyn said. “I need it for your party.” A sometime bridge partner,
I can’t tell you if it was the fact that alcoholism dominated our family dynamics or if it was a legacy affect from dysfunction going
This series, for all sorts of reasons, highlight women who have made me better. They’ve taught me something. I want you to meet them. I am sure
Thank you to all the participants of our Science and Faith dialogues! It was a real pleasure to interact with you each. Many of you
I missed them both terribly. I never thought, when they were young, to worry about them going off to war. It was a total of
I’m a small framed woman. But I have a lot of venom in me. This is not a comment on my attitude. It’s a factual
From the very first time we walked the farm, I had visions for the place. A long, skinny piece of property, it was managed for
Dealing with the hardships of life that sometimes make finding joy difficult, according to Jake in an AIM message with his mother on July 29th,
Tanis the Redneck Mommy, this reminds me of you and your contribution to all of us about the beauty of ‘Holland’. You share with us
Happy Monday…. er, Tuesday. In case you didn’t know, I have been on a medical mission trip this past week to Costa Rica with my
“You drove me crazy when you would take the tree down on Christmas Day.” This from my middle son. Youngest son is listening to the
October is the month that God is good to remind me that life doesn’t make sense without Him. If you aren’t a believer, it’s okay
There are a million reasons to lose patience, especially if you are so inclined. Which I might be. My youngest son has taken to describing
You’d think there would not be much for me to report, given that it’s been in the high 90’s every freaking day. For weeks now.
We’ve harvested our honey. We are selling a limited number of jars to locally interested parties. 9 ounces for 10 dollars. (Just under a pound)
I’ve been cleaning up the apartment that sits above our garage. It was my Mother’s home for over three decades. I don’t call it her’s
I was driving home from West Texas in early fall, alone in the car tuning the radio as the sun waned, its warming rays settling
Ellie lived for a little over ten years. During that time I ran over her. Twice. I also unknowingly dragged her 100 yards behind a
Mother insisted I take Home Economics a thousand years ago. (For those of you who might be too young, that was the class in high
“How come you aren’t writing your Happy Monday’s anymore?” Neil says. We were at the end of our phone conversation. The question came a little bit
“I don’t understand what the bees forage off of down here.” Neil is walking through the pasture, I’m keeping up with him wondering if I
My Mother and I love each other despite the fact that as adult women we have lived together for over 40 years. Shared genetics does
“That buzzing-noise means something. If there’s a buzzing noise, somebody’s making a buzzing-noise, and the only reason for making a buzzing-noise that I know of
I’ve wanted honey bees out at the farm for months. To have honey bees is… sexy. Sexy in that politically correct kind of way… as in
What happens when your husband says, “Okay, I am going to retire now.” You start thinking about how it’s going to go. Which leads you
The little girl’s tight, golden curls sprung from her head in all directions. They bounced when the 4 year old talked so they were in
“I want you to take this test.” My middle son handed me his laptop. “I’ve never taken a personality test, Johnathan.” “Just take it.” Ten minutes
I cook as an outlet these days. The process appeals to me, because although I am past the time of babies and teens, my time is still
“I’m going to come down the last weekend of August, if that’s okay?” That was my brother’s son, a young man busy understanding life. I’ve
“When I was a young woman, the girls that put out got to ride in the convertibles.” Mother said this while she was having her
I love it when I get feedback. This came from my Josh. I couldn’t agree with him more. He should have written the post. The
Isabelle sat on the patio chair, her little feet dangling. “You want to use the stool to sit on? I think the table will be
Just like everyone else in the summer, I’ve done a bit of movie watching. Because I never know what the movie is about or how
My brother called early this morning. That’s not so unusual, but I had been waiting for this particular call. “Janet, your Aunt Louise died at
If you liked the salmon you’re gonna love the steak and gravy…
I think about my Jake all the time. I think about him in heaven. I have since the day he died. Now the strange thing
In celebration of my mother’s birthday and for your information and education, Doris cooks Salmon, a meal guaranteed to love no matter your age.
God, in all His glory, power emanating from Him, Christ and the Holy Spirit and He, one and endless, spoke to the others. “I have
“I’m going to bring the caviar up that I bought.” This from my youngest son. He and his middle brother love fine things. Their older
Remember the hive I got a year ago from my brother? Well, in a year, this girl has done her job. Did you find her?
We’d piled into various cars. There were too many of us. We were headed to overpasses and intersections known for sheltering the homeless of northwest
The older I got the more times Dad would find a moment when we’d be talking… no, he’d be taking.. and he’d say “God showed
For the fall semester of 2015 and spring 2016, the Jake Siefert Corp of Cadet Chaplain scholarship had two recipients! Rocio Guiterrez and Aaron Schneider
It’s time to tell the story. It’s time to give credit where its due. A bit before Thanksgiving, before the mild winter of 2015 had
“I know you believe in that Bible adage ‘you reap what you sow’,” said my brother. “Yes. Why, yes, I do.” I said this, ready
You’ve probably seen the news. It’s been shared on Facebook no telling how many times. If you GOOGLE you will get close to 179,000 hits
“Why don’t you stop at Arbor Gate and see if they have one?” Mother suggested. The winter sun was streaming in the truck windshield. I
can spring be far behind? The days are already a bit longer. The earth gently turning, tilting as El Nino does his thing so that
No matter what we might throw at her, Nature is amazing. And four days later…
“Do you know what we did before there were panties?” The two men in the back of the truck almost swallowed their tongues. The air
Christmas is over and depending on your schedule of clean up and New Year’s organization, all the tinsel, lights, and decorations will be headed for
Let’s call her ‘M’. I know M because about 8 years ago and for every two weeks since, M has come to my house to
“Jan, what are you doing?” I was about 6 and laying on the bottom bunk. Just laying there in the middle of the day. Dad
Remember when I told you about the avocado trees? (Go here to be reminded.) The ones that needed the honey bees to buzz all around
We’d gone to the farm to cut grass. The recent rains have made our grass and pastures and flowers do that miraculous thing. You know
Both of my army sons (veterans now) bought items off of the internet while they were deployed. A soldier away from home, dreams about coming
Dear Mr. Colbert, I know you are very busy getting ready for your late night talk show. But I would like to ask a favor.
What are the honey bees doing at the farm, you might ask. Well, I am very glad you did. Because I have wondered myself. It’s
Back before summer hit us with temperature in the triple digits, back when the mosquitoes were just fixing to come out, a friend of mine
I have an interesting story to tell you. I’ll give you two caveats: 1. I really believe knowledge is power (wished I’d been the way
It was Mother that brought it out in the open. We were in the car. Sometimes she sits very quietly and thinks in the passenger
If you’ve been reading anything about me you know that just about 9 years ago I joined an unusual Sunday School in the church I
I like to cook. Currently, because I do very little in the way of artistic expression in any other media, cooking serves my soul and
I love being the mother of three boys. That’s not to say that if God had seen fit to give me girls that I wouldn’t
“No, Mother, you cannot take that piece of junk out of the trash.” I had moved the old wicker bookshelf from one room to another.
Up until about an hour ago I knew very little of the genetics of deafness or hard of hearing issues. I figured it was just
Just like almost everyone else, I listened last week as the news came out about Dylann Root. As the media outlets gathered steam and sensational
With honey dripping from the hive, the queen bee at the farm has been doing her job and I have watched in wonder. In the
I like social media. It helps me keep track of people, of which through my own fault I suppose I wouldn’t know what they were
“It’s like there is a shadow over their place,” said Mother, looking at the truck and closed house of our neighbors to the north. “I
A guest post by Buddy Ellisor, resident of Wimberley A New Perspective Today we are ankle deep in mud hosing down personal artifacts in the
Last week I asked you to look at this picture and observe the very interesting science phenomenon! Wow, did a lot of you look at
I remember the first time I met Gene. It was a cold, wintery day at the farm. I had been researching the wooded area north
How many of you can tell me why this photo is interesting? There are two little science lessons here. Very cool ones. Put your answers
It had been a long, hard day. The mother and son were sitting on the back porch, sipping on cranberry juice and vodka. As the
“Want to go for a walk,” said Buddy. “Sure,” said SB. We’d share a quite fine meal, the four of us, meant to celebrate, prepared
On Monday, Neil called and said he was on his way down from Fort Worth. When he pulled into the driveway in Houston, I knew
Remember this? Sometimes the things we try just don’t work. Despite all of the efforts, Mother’s sewer remained backed up. It only took about 36
I’d just picked up Mother from her daily very local shopping trip. About four times each year she has bouts of car sickness. This was
I must confess. Lately I have been enamored with our increasing knowledge of how emotions and biological chemicals “communicate”. As humans, we are very cognizant
This is absolutely delicious. My brother taught me to make it. It’s his creation. You can use any greens. I used mostly arugula. 1 apple
“Jan, I know this is going to upset you,” Mother said at breakfast. “The carpet around my toilet is all wet.” Quickly calculating my day’s
I’ve read the reviews on Better Call Saul. It’s a quirky, one hour long, mostly dark, part comedy television series that is a spin off
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For sure if you are from the south, you remember standing at your wild honeysuckle vine and doing what we do when the fragrant blossoms
Remember the amazing synchronous dichogamy that is the begatting strategy of avocados? No? Go here. I figured if the girl bee workers had done their
Three strawberry cake recipes and one of them is bound to be the one your Grandmother used! I have made all of these and love
Since January, the teacher of a class I attend challenged all of the attenders to memorize the entire book of 1 John, two verses a
Paper: HOUSTON CHRONICLE Date: SUN 12/17/95 Section: TEXAS MAGAZINE Page: 3 Edition: 2 STAR Not so common after all By JANET L. SIEFERT This band
I think the young woman’s name was Linda. Through the, 5th, 6th, and 7th grade and maybe into the 8th, I spent one afternoon, for
Manuel asked me if I had seen the avocados. “No”, I answered, “where exactly are they?” As we walked in the direction that he had
Did you ever have one of those weekends? Or maybe for you it was a few days in a row. The kind where tears sit
Phage, you might say. It’s an interesting story. Let me begin where I began. About ten years ago, I was trying to understand something called
I wasn’t a fan of Bradley Cooper in Hangover or Failure to Launch. I wasn’t particularly interested in seeing him in Silver Linings Playbook so
Not too long after my Jake went to Heaven, someone asked me if I had found out anything about him that surprised me. I said
Just like a lot of southwestern Texans, I drive a lot of miles and just like a lot of drivers I listen to the radio
Sometimes you find just the right combination. Ever once in a while, completely independent of talent or conscious choice, something comes together perfectly. Like my
Back in Arkansas, tn the middle of the woods, behind my childhood home and a little to the south, was a school for special ed
Hubble is busy taking pictures. I ran across a post explaining about a particular photo that Hubble took.. I can’t write the magnificence of Hubble’s
Today, is my youngest son’s birthday. Thirty one years ago, on a beautiful Sunday,( which is the best day to have a baby by the
Yes, I was one of those who fell in love with Captain Kirk when Star Trek was a very bad, low tech sci fi series
The whole time I was in England, I wondered about my mother. You know my mother. That woman who at 82 years out works me
Katrina was one of those kind of people. I first heard of her when I received a notice for a workshop that she was holding.
Over the summer, with trees down across fences, we accumulated quite a bit of barbed and hog wire debris. We also managed to change out
I’ll admit it. Since childhood I have suffered from brain chemistry that can provoke slips into depression and anxiety. It’s very clear that some of
This is the day that my Jake went to Heaven Actually, its just when his heart stopped beating. It might have been hours before that,
I’ve been concocting. Not quite a witches brew, but someone did accuse me the other day of running a compound pharmacy. He was jealous. I
The group I meet with on Sunday mornings had an event on Saturday. Mother and I attended. You had a choice of crafts that several
I don’t know if you saw this article from the New York Times. It has just captivated my imagination. A husband photographer of one of
Three months ago, I had 9 chooks. (I like that name for chickens. Sally Sweetapple taught it to me.) A week ago I had only
I had a new friend email this morning. She lives in another city. She is getting ready for trial and was relating a dream she
“I read a story today that reminded me of you,” said brother Neil. He’s talking to me on his iPhone as we do our almost
I was never good at leaving home. I was terrible at it as a child. Sleepovers sent me into fits of anxiety that demonstrated themselves
We bought this farm in 2008. It hardly seems like six years ago. A lot has happened since then. I’ve seen droughts and I’ve seen
Just a note from this side of Heaven on your birthday. To tell you I love you. I’m still trying to do something with your
When I was young, the mark of summer was going without shoes. I loved those days. As cool nights gave way to hotter days, there
I remember the first time I heard that word. Parsimony. It was about my second year of graduate school. It only took me two years
We’ve been getting our tennis in right after the sun comes up. Its too hot otherwise. Four of us are out there, water bottles in
It all started when we started talking about water. The drought has started to let up in Texas and we’ve been having rain. Even central
If you’ve never been to Iceland, you should go. I would not have thought it was as interesting as it is. Besides the fact that
Well, yes. Let me tell you how I know. Before I do I should probably say exactly what I mean. It’s possible to have never
Betty, Theresa, Pam, and Sharon!!! Congratulations! Contact Janet to receiver your book!!
We are lucky. We live on that side of Houston that has trees. However, this winter their oaky branches began scraping the roof line of
We’ve all got those things we do when we want to waste time. I am incompetent at video games. I don’t remember what I did
I’ve talked about the class I attend on Sunday and what it has meant to me since Jake went to Heaven. Provision, God’s that is,
The birds are going crazy at the farm. They are mating. They are incubating. Cycling from mating, egg laying, to fledging. And then they start
It seems to me there has been more buzz about Mother’s Day this year. (It’s possible that this is a personal observation based on my
When I was four my sister died. Her little body, thin, her lungs structured with malformed sodium channels, she succumbed and went to heaven at
I heard from so many of you last week. So many of you prayed, told me your own thoughts, gave minutes of yourself to consider
I am fascinated with brain chemistry. If you ascribe to the philosophy that all we are is brain chemistry (there is nothing supernatural or soul-ish
It was a beautiful day. Mother and I had spent a companionable afternoon at the farm gardening. Late in the afternoon, almost the dinner hour,
I remember the first time I heard Tina Turner. Silent Bob introduced me to her before we were married. He, like most men at that
Do you know who Charlie Harper is? He drew this: And this one too.. And this one, which makes me think of spring. He was
Ever so often I’m in the mood for a little Leonard Cohen. His distinctive gravelly baritone rolls out of my earbuds, half zen, half folk,
Last year at this time, at the farm, my angel wing begonias, the ice plant that I brought up from central Mexico, and every fern
Decades ago, my oldest son, when he was a young teen, rode in the MS 150. I remember going with he and his Dad the
We live in a fine time, if you ask me. Anybody, anywhere can find out things. All the information in the world can be brought
Thirty five years ago, plus about one hour, Jack Huddle Jr. died. He was my dad. He was a man of integrity and a recovered
The woman stretched. She’d never put curtains on the windows, she liked to see the sky. She could tell that on the other side of
A few weeks ago, me and thirty or so other women gathered to shower a young woman for her upcoming wedding. Being the fashionista that
I remember the day one of the three of my grown sons asked me why I never took them to McDonald’s when they were little.
Weather fascinates me. For someone who has been a watcher of it most of my life, I am continually reminded how little I know. When
All the Christmas decorations are packed away.. The cleanup crew is busy at the farm. They know when one of our cows is due. The
I’ve talked about Brian. Here, and here. For a little boy who I saw only a couple of times a month, he was never far
I hate that I am not bilingual. I certainly have had opportunity. I have had in-laws whose native language was Spanish, I have worked for
Every year at this time, every denomination that holds to Christmas tradition, has a play of some sort, a concert at least, centered around the
On the wall next to the fireplace on either side, are two deep cabinets. Because our house is old and these cabinets face the outside
“Mother, would you like to go to Little Rock for a little trip?” I asked. She didn’t have to think long. “I would love to
There had to be several times we passed the entrance to the Pine Bluff Arsenal. I figure my brother was with my dad and I
We all stood still staring into the sky. The tennis game came to a halt, we were transfixed. “What is that?” said the tall blonde,
I love the winter holidays. Even the hot Gulf Coast winters can’t deter my expectations for the season and all the celebrations it contains. I
It used to be that very wealthy people, when they built huge homes and wings on homes, housed multiple generations. Take the Adam’s Family. They
Back in the 60’s I crushed on Captain Kirk. My Dad, noticing, hated it and told me so. Many times. Preteen, armed with reproductive knowledge,
Someone left this adorable, singing bat on my doorstep. I’m still smiling from just how freakin’ cute he is and how adorable the certain party
At a garden just north of Houston and south of the farm, a gardener collects trees. He tends them and watches to see which ones
I have a friend named Becky. Becky and I couldn’t be more different than any two people. But we love each other. I think we
“You do know when you travel internationally, your kidneys have the harder time getting into the right time zone,” Hugh said. I looked at him
We’ve got a neighbor. Up at the farm. It’s safe to say I can’t stand him. As in, I pretty much hate him. When I
I love maps. I love them more the older I get. It’s possible that’s because maps give perspective and wisdom comes from perspective that I
Oak Hill street contained seventeen cracker box houses with ample backyards and rock or asphalt drives. The road itself rose slightly from its intersection off
I am completely enamored with today’s technology. Smart phones and tablets and GPS and internet radio, along with bluetooth, DSL and cell phones that work
At the new barn in a corner where we recycle is a web. It’s a place that’s dry, a bit dusty and gets no direct
I think the fire ants are the worst they have ever been. They ate my okra plants this year. THEY ATE MY OKRA PLANTS. I
You might be the kind of person who is always looking for something new to bake. Or maybe you just like to have a recipe
At least 5 or 6 years ago, I saw my sister (she’s really an in law and not my biological sister, but she is my
Mother and I are companions. Because we spend a great deal of time together, we talk a lot. We cover a lot of topics. I
Daisy showed up, barely a kitten, at the farm, her tail shortened by someone, almost certainly not the results of her genetics. She is for
As a lot of you know, yesterday was Jake’s birthday. Jake’s my son in Heaven for those of you who don’t know. Which I can’t
The line snaked around, back and forth across the sidewalk. It was pretty out, a clear blue sky with a temperate wind blowing, cooling things
Nancy has been doing my hair for about 5 years. I still have no idea how old she is. My guess? Somewhere in her late
The Long drive, a Geologist’s Puzzle, and My Swag. We left Shark Bay (read here if you missed it) the next morning after packing the
As the plane flew west, fourteen long hours, we followed the sun to the eastern shores of Australia. The flight attendant pointed out the opera
I’m always trying out new recipes. I tell my family to give me their honest opinion. They were very vocal on this one. If you
I’m in Australia. It’s a group of us, all scientists, of different disciplines. (Some of us are biologists, some geologists, and some are either so
Mother and I and all the dogs went to the farm on our regular midweek trip. John, middle son and the teacher, came with us.
We decided to paint the old farmhouse this past weekend. It’s been about 6 years since we painted it Oak Hill brown from the more
We’d gone to a local restaurant that had a patio. We are the few that take those seats who aren’t there to use the ashtrays
On the 5th of May I had a birthday. I asked my family not to make much of it, mostly because it seems I have
We were at the farm, piddling, the sun shining and as I walked into the barn I saw the speakers. Black, heavy, cumbersome with huge,
Sitting in the Walmart parking lot a little bit north of Houston, the blustery wind is buffeting the car. It’s going to be a hot
I fixin to read some wise, ancient literature and bow my head in thought afterward and with a little thank you for two things: sweet
It’s been spring break for most people. Some went out of town. Some tried to go out of town. Some stayed in town. Us? Well,
I always thought it was reassuring to know that no matter where on the planet we are the ones we care about watch the same
We’ve been working in the garden at the farm. The ground is all tilled, we could use a bit more water in the form of
Brian comes to visit me about every two weeks. He’s about 16 months old now. I first talked about him here. I had hopes for
We’ve been discussing testosterone in our house. Well, that’s not exactly right. I’ve been discussing testosterone. Everyone else has just been listening. The lack of
On my way this morning, rain threatening to drop out of the lead winter sky, I left the radio on the station that Silent Bob
Ariana, sweet Ariana, introduced me to this salad. It is amazing. I made it for a friend’s birthday. She wanted olives. Ariana let me borrow
The conference list of speakers had been set months ago. I was to talk on the last day. Thirty or so friends and colleagues of
Because so many of you asked… 1. No, I never vacuum sealed the jars. The salads were very fresh for about 4 days. 2. Use
The long dining table had three leaves. There were seventeen chairs place around it’s perimeter, leaving room for elbows and scooting in and out. Silent
I love these. I made these. My family loves these. Try these. They last for 4 days in your frig. They look appetizing sitting in
I’ve made a lot of trips back and forth to Fort Worth. It’s my brother who lives there and his children. I’ve gone south to
Brenham is about thirty minutes from the farm. It’s the home of Blue Bell ice cream. It’s also the place for the oldest synagogue in
A big, thick walled, glass jar with a narrow neck was a constant commodity in Dad’s room during my formative years. I had to be
If you’ve been reading here, you know that we stalked Paula Deen for Mother’s 80th birthday. While this particular event was the reason for
As you may remember, my Mother turned 80 in June. We had planned to throw a big celebration. We had grand plans. And then she
We are used to hurricanes and their aftermath here on the Gulf Coast. I say used to, as if you can ever get used to
We’ve been raising prime Angus cattle at the farm. Poppy our big fat headed bull has done a good job of building up our herd.
“He said for us just to mark where we wanted the well,” Bob relayed. Having already researched every article I could find on the internet
“I’ve got a small package of olives. I don’t know how good they still are. I’ll get them for you if you want to try”.
The story goes that when man and woman were nomadically traveling around various prehistoric areas of the planet, some of them in certain regions realized
Hot and humid, weeding the garden, the sweat formed in droplets on my forehead and on my back. Rivulets were running off my nose and
“Jan, just let me rub your foot. It will make it not hurt so much,” Mother asked once again. Sitting with my leg propped up,
I don’t ever remember seeing many copperheads when I was a girl in Arkansas. Certainly there were plenty of rattlesnakes and I saw my
Wrapped in sheets I had washed in iron water and hung on a line to dry, I slipped my leg out from the covers and
This day 34 years ago I became a mother, a job that I longed for, one I hoped for. My first born, a son, who
Having never been to the ‘promised land’ until this summer, my first impression of the place and it’s people was the sheer complexity of the
When I told Mother we would have a big, fancy party, by the time she would decide she didn’t want, she had purchased her dress.
Dear Paua Deen, My mother, Doris, is a wonderful cook. She always wanted to be a movie star. She will be eighty on June 11th and
It’s very easy to forget the ones you live with. You settle into a rhythm of life, everyone filling their niche, every day conducted similar
Gloria moved among the hedges. She looked down at her body. She felt good. No phlegm rattled harsh against her ribcage. She was hungry. She
My mother is a good cook. She might be a great cook. She favors pies and cakes and excels in vegetables. She’s not a gourmet
“How am I going to know if I like what you write, Jan?” Mother is in one of those moods. “I think you should
For about 20 years, Mother worked for her brother, who owned a used car lot in North Little Rock and back then with little money
It was fall and Mother and I were sitting outside on the concrete picnic table. We have breakfast out there frequently. “Mother, you’ll be
We sat around the table, the four of us. “Where should we eat?” Saundra said. No one wanted to choose. It was already past 8pm
“Silent Bob, what kind of cake do you want for your birthday?” He thought for a minute. “It’s two weeks away, I’m going to have
Much to the consternation of adult sons, my middle son and my youngest son have found themselves in residence at their childhood home. In other
Well not actually… but I have a crush on James and it just seemed so… cosmic with his article on low profile tyres… reposted from
I was sort of into Fairy Tales when I was little. I had my favorites. Honestly, they were a bit weird, because they generally involved
Monika and Jim had met us at the airport. I knew Monika to be a lover of dogs so I was surprised when she complained.
If you recall, I went to Patagonia last week to do some science. My best intentions to post an update each day evaporated with my
Today we got the lay of the land and an understanding of what the volcanic eruption did. On June 4th, Chile’s Puyehue volcano looked like
On June 4th, a volcano in Chile’s Puyehue-Cordon Caulle chain erupted. It had been dormant for 50 years. The eruption sent a towering cloud of
Deep south Texas, having received no rain for the baking months of the summer of 2011, had finally gotten rain in late December. A late
Babies have been affecting me for some time now. But lately, it’s been a different affection. I increasingly marvel at them as small tiny miracles
SB and I held hands as we walked the paths of our friends’ home. Having experienced the European Christmas markets, these friends of ours had
My search was unlikely to prove fruitful, 20 or so vintage windows, still intact, identical in build wasn’t likely. So I thought. Tempting fate, I
2 pounds Granny Smith apples 2 pounds Braeburn apples 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon 3/4 cup granulated sugar 1/2 cup butter 1 cup firmly packed light
Dad lay in the hospital bed. “Go home to your family,” he told me. “I don’t know how long it will take.” Kissing him and
The newspaper clipping, faded to the color of parchment and creased, had passed through my hands more than once. It showed my dad, clad only
The island of Santorini, one of the many Greek Islands that draw tourists, is about a 2 hour ferry boat ride from Crete if you
Josh and I had been planning the trip since before he came back from Iraq. Having never been to Greece, I was eager to see
This is the story of a dog’s life. It was the winter of 1998, a Houston Christmas Eve and the weather had been hovering around
I sat across from the bridge table and looked at her skin. From a distance she looked 40, but once I watched her as she
In the darkened worship center, his parents pulled his chair to the handicapped section. A place designated for wheel chairs, it was half way through
There are two bodies of water on the farm. They were there when we bought the place and I am guessing that they have been
By Wednesday, August 24th, roughly 4,000 soldiers, deployed for over 11 months to the middle East, had come through the west door of the basketball
There’s a big old water oak down by the east end of the lake. It’s massive with resurrection fern decorating almost every branch and for
Rarely do I go to the farm by myself. I wouldn’t want to go by myself all the time. But the few times that I
It some parts of the country it’s fashionable to have a chicken coop. I am fashionable these days, because I do indeed have a chicken
by Laura Hillenbrand Review by Buddy Ellisor How much can a man endure before he gives up? It is said that we all have a
I am seriously going crazy. And I mad as hell at Dell… For two weeks, two weeks, my laptop has been broken! and I am
Somewhere inside my brain, whatever normally goes on, or has at least for almost 6 decades, isn’t. I noticed this happened a few months before
In the fall, in 1916, a little baby girl was born, just outside of Houston, in a black community known as Brookshire. Her family
All weekend last weekend I had in mind what I was going to write for Happy Monday. No writers block, a myriad of fomenting ideas
This past week some friends of mine, lets just call them Mr. and Mrs., gave me some apples. They grew these apples. In Houston. Where
If you’ve been reading anything I have written for the last several years, you know I came from an alcoholic family. That would be my
I have to admit. I am enamored with tools. Given the right equipment, whether its sewing, carpentry, farming, or mechanic-ing, the array of tools
I watched his little fuzzy head while he slept. As soon as he got some hair, it stood out around his head in a fine
I rarely ask Silent Bob for decorating advice. We had replaced the toilet and sink when we redid the old farm house, but the tub…
Beside the wonderful and informative lecture at the LTL last weekend, Pineknot Farm and Lab got to introduce a couple of city girls to the
I’ve been thinking about Handsome Cowboys. Can’t say that I don’t have a few in mind to bestow the honor on as the we get
I walked through Wal Mart and there it was again, staring me in the face, a young man’s butt cheeks barely visible beneath the thin
I’ve told you about Daisy. She’s a huntress. She’s a mouser. And lately she’s a ratter. She’s lethal. She’s sweet. The farm needs her. So
When I put them on my feet, with their flashy red soles… these French luxury shoes… la belle vie Don’t think I paid the price.
Growing up, I liked Connie’s house. It was grand. Her dad being a preacher an all, they moved around to parsonages and in this particular
About 10 months ago, Mother and I were driving to the farm. There were clouds rolling across the northwest part of Waller county and we
Today, on Pineknot Farm and Lab, our guest chef is none other than Captain Josh, back from a tour of several forward operating bases in
It was the night before, tired from putting grout into the tiny little crevices we had created in the tile of Silent Bob’s Steak ‘n
I shuffled around the pine needles that filled up the farm yard. Everyone’s gone but me, they’ve gone north and south out of Hempstead and
I don’t know what Ovea did to my Dad. Ovea, my paternal grandmother, also answered to “Huddle”, which was her last name. Calling her either
Probably most of you are familiar with C.S. Lewis’ works, especially if your children’s required reading included ‘The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe’, but
Early in our marriage, Bob and I moved to deep East Texas. We bought our first house, a little track rancher with a big yard
I was primed for baby birds with all the nests at the farm. There were Carolina wrens in the barn and barn swallows in their
One cold night up at the farm, we heard a kitten, back behind the barn, mewling. She was mewling loudly and from the sound she
It’s spring! Time for a picnic! This sandwich won’t need refrigerating because despite it’s tastiness (and it is tasty) there is no mayo or dreamwhip
I had just planned to walk the two big hounds down the street, knowing they hate being cooped up in the garage. City workers are
This is for any of you out there who are curious. Or who doubt. Or who want to know what you really believe in, not
Becky, a friend of my heart, has this most amazing hair. She swears she has it because her dad shaved her bald when she was
I find myself noticing youth. I must have been like them at one time. I can safely say I never appreciated just how beautiful youth
“I have an old lab. He’s 12. I just want you to make him comfortable. He has trouble making his back legs work. But mostly
Spring, for some reason, always makes me think about Handsome Cowboys. They steal my heart in different ways. Sometimes its the little ones, little ones
I never watched ‘Two and a Half Me’; mostly because I never seem to get involved with 30 minute sitcoms. The few times I did
We leave Cuatro Ciénegas today and head for planes going out of Mexico. We will take a recreational swim this morning at Rios Mesquites and
I think I have told you before… When I go to Mexico, which I will be going this week, I study these little buggers… They
We’d been at Elfoud for three days. Base camp had been a lovely palace turned hotel just outside the city. Each morning we had piled
One time several years ago, before I had traveled much at all, a friend of mine, old like me who had gone back to graduate
I arrived in Morocco yesterday, Marrakesh to be exact and it was the most beautiful desert evening. This part of Northern Africa, west of the
Last weekend, Houston and surrounding environs were supposed to get 3 inchs of snow… give or take… The models said so. The models were wrong.
The Kids Are Gone, Want a Divorce? There must be fairy tale type marriages. You know the kind. They are the stuff of romance novels…
Third installment of old woman marraige advice tonight.. pump went out at Pineknot Farm and Lab and … well, first things first.. gotta be able
I’ve been thinking about this blogging thing.. Unfortunately, if I could I would give up my day job and write for a living. Alas, having
The deciduous holly. If you go along the highways of Waller county or quite frankly in any part of the southeastern United States, you might
The Way to the Heart is Through the Stomach My dad was one of the few people I have ever known who hated to eat.
Build Your Man a Cave Mother goes to NAM daily. NAM is our local Northwest Assistance Ministires and they “strive to meet basic human needs
Tom and His Girls Date of births: August 12, 2009 Gender: one male and four females Breed: Bourbon Red Heritage Turkey I raised these from
I notice trees mostly in the winter. Every winter I am positively enamored by this one’s beauty. See it? The white sentinel, right there at
Let me tell you why, right here at the beginning of 2011, I have decided it’s time for me to provide you with marital advice,
After one trespassing attempt…. And the hunt begins… What about here? Really… there?! No words necessary… Bob, the hunter. A mud Pedi… Can you hear
This week I am featuring a book that I haven’t read yet. I am hoping to get my own personally signed copy from Jim Dent
Moses, the water dog. Date of birth: November 21, 1998 Gender: male, alpha Breed: English Labrador Retriever Temperament: “Which way did he go, George?” This
For reasons that have to do with a battle, my sister in law and her husband have been in town. They are Midwesterners, living outside
There is something about an oak tree that I love. This one grows near Pineknot Farm and Lab, on a piece of property that I
So, if this is the season for giving and joy, my admission and confession is that I have come to suck at Christmas gift shopping
Part 3 – Boots Dear Santa, I am hoping its not too late notice to ask for special orders. You might remember that I had
Maybe it’s because I’m old. Maybe it’s because he’s old. But I got to say, Baldwin, for his hairy self (obvious from ‘It’s Complicated’) and
I fought long and hard to get this recipe. (Thanks Sue, from over 30 years ago.) It’s an old Czech recipe and there is a
My sons Grandma on their Daddy’s side, makes these! They are so good that one of my ex sister-in-laws stole them (when she was still
Part 2 – Dolls I was never good at playing with dolls. Mostly I didn’t get it. It’s possible that it wasn’t so much the
Part 1 – Stockings Being a freckled girl, I’ve never had that beautiful skin that seems to run with the genes of dark eyed people.
These are the cutest cookies… okay maybe they aren’t officially cookies, but they are treats, and I could eat them with milk, or coke.. of
This summer I planted one row of okra, about 20 plants, that started bearing their little seedy, green pods the first of July. They have
I love to go to other countries and discover new foods. I had pumpkin soup in Austria on Friday. It was delicious. Because my plane
I’m sentimental. I am wondering if there is a word that could indicate a lot more excess of emotion than that, because if there is,
I am not totally certain these are a cookie. But whatever they are they are easy and most delicious, and even better than that they
Dad handed me one. “This is a buckeye, Janet,” he said. I turned the object over in my hand and looked at it. Dad had
I’ve been trying to write a happy Monday for three days. It’s not that I don’t have things in my heart to say. I do.
Back in the summer, before Capt. Josh got deployed, we spent three hot days making a rock patio. I had bought a time lapse camera…
Silent Bob came back from the back field. “#12 is acting funny. She’s in the middle field lying down. The other cows are back there
So we are stepping up the effort just a tiny bit, but I really want you to make these cookies! These were my Dad’s favorite
These have to be one of the most delicious and easiest cookies to make! They are not too sweet, but they are buttery. There are
I don’t know Mr. LeGrand. All I know of him is from the news. That and what his fellow teammates say about him. That and
It’s been the year of insects out at the farm. This summer the fields were filled with grasshoppers and crickets peeped out of whole under
The old house on Oak Hill was drafty. It would have been more so if it hadn’t been spit and pasted together with layers of
Down there in the Gulf, down at the bottom, where the continental shelf gives way to a deeper, murky gulf bottom. It’s a mile down
I am not much about driving. But it seems like lately I have been driving a lot. And I almost always have someone with me.
You CANNOT mess these cookies up they. They are absolutely delicious. You can add almost whatever you want to them, with the exception that you
“Don’t just stand around. Figure out what needs to be done and do it.” Dad said. “Don’t wait for me to tell you,” he continued,
Starting next week, a new step by step cookie recipe for you holiday enjoyment. We will start with the easiest, failsafe, you-can’t-mess-this-one-up and they-are-good-for-you and
The moon was full and there she waited, her abdomen factory of silk full and ready Amid humus and leaf, she poised her legs, her
We sat in Beijing, Leslie and I, about in the middle of the auditorium. It was hot and the day outside was typical for the
They came out of PF and L’s chickens, they’ve been laying for about a month now. I raised these chicks when they weren’t more than
This is the last of the September Casseroles! I hope you have tried them. I hope they become favorites in your hope.. One last one
Sometimes I see things I really want. Take for instance the utility sink that my amiga had in her Mexican home, when I was visiting
I’m here in Mexico, Cuatro Ciénegas to be exact, one of my favorite places. A place I have spent some time looking at the mountains
We used to quilt. Okay, maybe we never really quilted much, not as a group anyway. But given that no one seemed to come up
This was John’s and Jake’s favorites! Make it tonight with some homemade guacamole and chips. Your family will thank you. First you need these items:
When I get back home, I am going to watch Dr.Zhivago again. It’s probably not going to be as spectacular as I remember it. All
To start off September’s easy dinner meals, let me introduce you to the first casserole. Guaranteed tasty, a hit with kids and teenagers and it’s
“Come back to choir with me, Mom,” my middle son said. I looked at him. I had decided that I would do something special with
The lake was an eerie green week before last. All that cow poop, as those black Angus mommas stood in it 24/7 to try and
Near Troy, Missouri and the junction of state roads V and W and JJ, there are a series of low rolling mountain ridges. These ridges
For the month of August, announcing, Handsome Cowboy of the month, Mr. John Wright! Just look at those eyes! Look at that smile! Look at
As I think I have told you, I am the oldest child. I was also the girl child that my dad hoped would be a
“Want to come up and help me build that patio?” Captain Josh said. Being the mother of adult sons, I long to hear these kinds
It’s about this time of year I start wondering if I am going to Elk camp again. Understand, I am not supposed to go. Women
I have inordinately happy about this past couple of weeks at the farm. It’s because we have been baling hay. Let me explain. When we
Take a guess.. how old was that old pine we cut down? Leave your best guess. Winner(s) will be rewarded!
We’ve got a lot of pine trees on the farm. Very old ones. I’ve talked about them before. The barn and ‘D’ house all sit
This guy has stolen my heart. Really. I first met him about 6 months ago. He came riding up to the fence on his bicycle,
When you live or work or play on a farm, its the constancy of nature’s dynamics that gets to you. What I mean to say
I remember the first time I heard Willie. He was singing Stardust. Unusual cadence in the way he sung the words, I liked it. Since
Silent Bob, my beloved, is a very smart man. There isn’t a sport that you can talk about that he doesn’t know the stats, in
Maybe it’s because I drive so much, but lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about cars. The one I am currently driving has become something
If you go out to the farm right now, at the very back, behind the house, and then behind the barn, you will find a
I have never been much into cars. This is clearly all on account of my Dad, no question about it. He thought one of the
I must have looked through a thousand photos of Armando, trying to find the right one for his installation into the PFandL Handsome Cowboy Hall
The PF and L bookmobile is coming your way, every week this summer! Pick up this week’s good book! And let us know how you
It’s the last hours of Memorial Day 2010. All day I have chosen to remember… “It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who
“I am going to have to renew my driver’s license. I want you to take me,” says my tiny, feisty, soon to be 78 year
It’s that time again… the one where we get to pick the Handsome Cowboy of the month (whatever… inspiration is not constrained by time… where
I’m not one of those people good at discovering music. I want to be. But I’m not. I collect people that can help me. First
On a recent hill country jaunt, graciously organized by Pineknot’s fabulous friends, while talking and not paying attention, we managed to make a big broad
We raise prime Angus Beef cattle. We are committed to responsible husbandry and specialize in healthy, hormone free animals.
It’s been a tough week. One of those where having read Psalms 109, I wondered if I could be so bold as to ask God
“I think you need a brooder box for your birthday,” says brother Neil. I don’t want to raise anything else, I think to myself. “No”.
“Babies amaze me.” I said to God the other day. “I gave you three of your own. Weren’t you amazed then?” He replied. “Yeah, I
We sat there, Fariq and I, gazing out on the pyramids. “I don’ think an Egyptian made them.” He said. His eyes were like dark
In case you have forgotten, because it’s been soooo long since I wrote, we were talking about cows and magic straws. You know, as in
You might recall that I have mentioned previously that cow farming is all about reproduction. It’s a place where we acknowledge what is true and
All over the prairies of Texas the lupines buds are swelling about ready to bust forth in indigo blue. I love Texas in the spring
Strange the things you don’t know… like where in the heck do ladybugs go when they aren’t eating the aphids off your summer plants and
March 1, 2010 The young woman looked to be in her late teens. Very tall and lithe, she was beautiful. She was applying her makeup
Since its Valentine’s Day, at least it’s the aftermath… I am proposing to induct a Handsome Cowboy in my own Hall of Fame, whenever the
I knew it was going to be a bad week, Harriet had left three messages for me to call her back. ‘Janet’, says Harriet, when
I have been having a strange desire the last few months. I want to create something. There was a time when it was babies that
They had just laid down a fresh load of gravel outside Moss’ place. Meant to cover the potholes and welcome the thirsty souls looking for
Everyone here in northern Mexico is bracing for an even colder weekend. Today clouds covered the mountains that surround this valley and we kept our
Day 2 Everyone here in northern Mexico is bracing for an even colder weekend. Today clouds covered the mountains that surround this valley and we
I don’t know what you are doing this week. Maybe you are starting some new resolutions or maybe you are trying to get settled back
Did you know, that with really good eyes and a really good place and an even better, amazingly wonderful amateur telescope you can the rings
The Kitchen looked like this: Please note the brown paneling and the yellow linoleum, two very popular items.. in hmm.. about the 60’s .. I
Have you ever wondered about Heaven? I mean beyond whether there is one or not. (I have to assume you already made a decision one
We sort of all fell in love with #12. Big and with a little bit more testosterone floating around in her big black body than
This months’ book choices will be all about the pageant. As in Christmas pageant, and if you want to celebrate Christmas and ponder a bit
I think my Mother would have liked it if I had been a movie star. She wanted this, not because of any particular talent or
Old houses, before there were utility rooms, had a windowed room, just about big enough to put an old washtub or if you had a
Funny how the date of important things get blurred in your mind. You say to yourself I will never forget this day and then, there
“Mom, you can’t do what you did last year about the Christmas tree.” Johnathan says, somewhat exasperated that he has to go there with me.
We got big cockroaches here in Texas. I mean big ones, so big you can hear them walking along the floor in the middle of
I’ll be honest with you, its been a rough couple of weeks. First I got this crazy crick in my neck. (Even saying that makes
PMB G 129 2 Commons Lobby College Station, TX 77840 Dear Mr. Robert Siefert and Mrs. Janet Siefert My name is Bradford Barrett. Let me
We bought the farm… in early 2008, a skinny little piece of land, that rolls up and down, just outside of Hempstead. We got good
It’s this time of year that I think about some of the most delicious things my Mother cooked… Something warm from the oven, I would
I don’t mind telling you, the second I can find this… well, yeah, I am trying it. They got three strikes for them in my
[slideshow] Welcome to Pineknot Farm and Lab where Readers Digest meets Ladies Home Journal meets Scientific American meets some weirder, non-new age version of Daily
My dad was adamant. Television rotted your brain. He never said it exactly like that, it was more like “it’s a boob tube, Janet. The
When the kids were little, Jake probably just beginning school, we had our first bout with head lice. All of us but Bob seemed to
I think in Howard’s mind and heart, we cemented our friendship the season we played lepers in the church Christmas program. That was more than
On Monday’s I’ve taken to visiting with my friend Howard. We sort of spend the day together waiting for the chemo to do its job
I sat in the conference center; stiff chairs set in a steep incline, angled so that everyone could view the small stage and see the
I don’t quite know why, but Mexico speaks to my soul. It’s not because I speak the language; I limp along down there, struggling to
I am on my way to Merida Mexico tonight. I had a lot of things to say, seems to be a lot on my mind,
I watched fine sand grains fall away as I took a step onto the bank of Cypress Creek. This suburban, soggy, watershed has been a
I knew a young woman once. She had the most beautiful, brownish red, full bodied hair, which she wore long. It curled in just the
My brother suggested it first, but in the long standing way he and I have come to acknowledge good ideas, I am going to claim
Hey my Jake, Happy Monday up there in Heaven. I am writing you because today is the third anniversary of your getting there. You know your
Today, I don’t have any words. They are locked in my heart and won’t come out. I have some people on my heart that my
It’s been a long summer in the desert of Eastern Iraq, as soldiers from the 3rd armored calvary worked to secure the small towns and villages
As a young girl, growing up attending a Missionary Baptist church in a little working class neighborhood in Arkansas, I was familiar with the hell,
The winds that came through Houston on the night Ike came ashore on the Galveston beaches were faster than I have ever driven a car.
Laying on my squeaking air mattress, I was wide awake, had been for at least an hour. And its THAT hour, that long hour before
There was a woman who walked the streets of my neighborhood. I haven’t seen her in a while, but for almost two years, I saw
When I was young, one of the best pleasures for me was getting to go barefooted. Soon as I heard the June bugs and lightning
When Jake left for his tour of duty in Iraq, I decided I would give up sweets while he was gone. I guess I did
Yesterday I was driving home to Texas. We spent four days in my beloved Mexico and despite our initial trip going down with Hurricane Dolly,
I thought my dad was handsome. Maybe all daughters think that about their dads. I know that a good part of why I thought he
I saw Tony Snow the first time on television when he was announcing that he was leaving his job as press secretary for President Bush.
The pine tree stood at the edge of the pasture, once majestic and green with bark of brown and gray, but now ghostly white. Branches
There are two pear trees that frame the path to the back door of the old house. When we first walked the property, before we
At the height’s of Dad’s active alcoholism, Brother Pointer took him to Alcoholics’ Anonymous. I don’t know too much about that car ride for dad,
I finally got to talk to Josh. The first time in 8 months, since he left, I got to hear his voice Saturday, a little
Last week was a trial. For about 48 hours in the middle of the week, I had more broken down vehicles to deal with than
Right after I had my third son I set about worrying about the responsibility of raising three men, keeping them out of danger and ensuring
It all started with excess appliances at the farm. It’s easy in this life to accumulate too much, it’s had too get rid of all
Wiping the fine mist of my breath from the window, I look up into the dark sky. It’s beautiful. The moon is full, bounded by
The first weekend of work on the floors of our old farmhouse began with out much discussion or thought. We just started massively ripping out
If you have read these Happy Monday’s the last two years, you have a sense of how much I love my brother. I asked God
The first few weeks at the farm we realized we had inherited some farm animals. There were two cats skulking around, one huge, multicolored, and
I am sitting here in the Denver airport, waiting on a flight to another city, but I can’t help but consider how much Colorado has
To the best of my recollection, I ate well growing up. What I mean to tell you is that my mother was (and is) a
I heard a story about Jake from one of his friends. We were reminiscing and he was sharing. He and Jake were out by his
March 3, 2008 Before Jake went to heaven, he took me to look at a piece of Texas land. “Mom, I think you and Dad
I did something awful. I didn’t mean to, but just the same, I did something of which I am deeply ashamed. This weekend we were
February 12, 2008 I drove Grace this past week. I think she remembered me from two years ago. Let me explain. Grace is Jake’s first
Howdy and Happy Monday! I have been thinking about my husband. For 17 years he has left the house at 5:30 every morning to travel
Howdy, Happy Monday! Time for a confession; I never made it through Christmas the right way. Too many sons missing this year, despite John’s earnest
O Holy Night, There is a bit of a legend in our family about a Christmas Eve and Jake. Although I don’t remember the exact
Howdy and Happy Monday to you! Hope you are having a better time at getting your Christmas shopping done than I am. I rarely go
A sandy haired, gentle smiled boy named Danny gave me a cleat when I was in the 7th grade. I was to wear it around my
I guess everybody is like me, trying to get ready for the holidays. I am not having much luck at it, the getting ready part
I knew I was leaving to go to Mexico last week, but in the worry of the trip, I forgot to plan ahead for not
Gulf coast winters are almost all about mild, which means if you are the kind of person who likes to watch and poke a campfire
Howdy and Happy Monday! I missed talking to you last week. I have a lot my heart wants to write, Mexico always refreshes my soul
Autumn comes to those of us on the gulf coast on tentative winds. We anxiously await the first cold front of the season and by
My dad told me, “Janet, don’t ever judge how someone grieves”. He said it in a voice that was at once commanding but filled with
The last couple of times I have been in church, I have caught myself wondering whether or not we are getting bigger or smaller? Not
Dear Jake, Happy Monday up there in Heaven. I wanted to tell you about something, son. Remember the time you took me to Mulligans to
September 17, 2007 Today is my brother’s birthday. If you ever wonder if your prayers are answered, Neil is an example of one. When my
For as long as I can remember, my dad wore a hat. He used it for his switchman’s railroad work and he wore it when
Howdy you all!!! YOU DID IT!.. With the help of so many of you who I send this Happy Monday to, you were a part
My dad and I spent a lot of time together. I was dad’s first child and in spite of him desperately wanting a son, according
All this month my brother’s flights have allowed him weekly overnights in Houston. It’s been the rare treat to go down and pick him up
You ever had a week where you spend more time thinking that you just have too much bad luck coming your way? Seems like no
Howdy and Happy Monday Well this week has seen the start of two families into marraiage contracts blessed by God and one dear friend’s mother
Howdy and Happy Monday!! Mother’s day of 2005 Jake gave me a book about Abraham Lincoln, A Commitment to Honor, A Unique Portrait in His
Howdy and Happy Monday (well, Wednesay now!) I will be in the beautiful city of Morelia in Mexico all next week, so maybe it’s a
Howdy and Happy Monday! Today it’s just about Father’s Day! This Happy Monday is dedicated to all you dads, gonna be dads and father of children.
The first time I rode a motorcycle it was on the back of my brother’s dirt bike. Neil was barely 13, full of sullen anger,
Well, Happy Monday Yal’ll, just barely. Today is a day to remember all those soldiers who have given their all. For me, its personal as
I woke up Saturday morning with no particular plans. Spent a bit of quiet time, Bob brought me some coffee, and the phone started to
I missed last week, mosly because I was out of the country and there was no internet. My head cold today is preventing me
Jake’s been on my mind a lot this past week. That means I have been missing him, at night more than I think I can
Howdy & Happy Monday after Easter! When I was little I was afraid to be away from home. I didn’t get much better as I
Howdy and Happy Monday! I had to get a flat fixed on Friday. On my way to my favorite place for that sort of thing,
Howdy! I want to tell you about a good day. Every once in a while, a day comes along, that if you had been God,
When I was little I had chores. One of the most memorably disgusting ones was cleaning the dog pens. We kept hunting dogs, mainly short
March 12, 2007 I am thinking about fishing. Maybe it’s because Dad took me fishing on my birthday for many years or maybe it’s because
March 5, 2007 Happy Monday!! Those of us here in the South can feel spring in the air. Its right around the corner and the
Happy Monday and Howdy. I really missed sending you a good wish for the last week. But here we are back to it, the end
I have a vague, dusty memory of my Dad and I as we rambled down a dirt road in his old Ford truck. I remember
Howdy! (5th Happy Monday of 2007, rewritten Sept 21, 2019. When I was a young one of the shows I watched religiously was ‘The Man from
Howdy! Happy 4th Monday! Report from some of you on the content of these happy Mondays is that if Jake was the ‘king of random’
Howdy! Happy Monday ya’ll! Well…It’s only the third Happy Monday and it’s already turning out to be a bit more difficult than I imagined. Its
Howdy ! Welcome to the 2nd Happy Monday of 2007. Hope you all had a good week, ready to start the first full week of
When I go to the Mexican desert I go for a couple of reasons. Most of them are professional, it’s a place of remarkable biology